For many professionals, the prospect of public speaking—whether a planned toast or an impromptu question—triggers a search for inspiration. We wait for the perfect words to strike. This is a mistake. Eloquence under pressure is not born of inspiration; it is the product of structure. By internalizing a few simple formulae, you can transform anxiety into assured communication.

The Art of the Toast: A Structure for Connection

A toast is a miniature speech designed to honor and unite. Its power lies in its predictable rhythm, which takes the audience on a shared journey.

1. Why Are We Here? (The Hook): Immediately connect to the event itself. “We’re here to celebrate the launch of Project Phoenix,” or “We’ve gathered to honor Maria’s incredible 20-year tenure.” This grounds your remarks in a shared reality.
2. How Am I Connected? (The Bridge): Establish your unique perspective. “I had the privilege of leading the initial team,” or “I remember interviewing Maria all those years ago.” This personal stake gives you credibility and warmth.
3. The Anecdote (The Heart): Share a short, relevant, and appropriate story that illustrates a core quality. Don’t list attributes; tell a tale that proves them. Instead of “She is resilient,” say, “I’ll never forget the day the server failed. While the rest of us panicked, Maria calmly said, ‘Okay, what’s Plan B?’ and sketched the solution on a napkin.” Stories are remembered; adjectives are forgotten.
4. Thanks & Toast (The Climax): Be clear and concise. Thank the person or team for their impact, then explicitly invite the audience to participate: “So, please join me in raising a glass to Maria!”

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Fay Niewiadomski

I awaken leaders to purposefully discern the best way forward, with such clarity, that they find within themselves the courage, wisdom, and compassion to do what they never dared to do before.

I’ve been privileged to work closely with C-level officers, presidents, ministers, global chairpersons, diplomats, board members, senior business and political leaders, and their teams to successfully navigate complex, high-stakes situations and make sound business and personal decisions resulting in profound and lasting change.

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